How to Introduce Sex Toys in Your Relationship? A Quick Guide

How to Talk About It (and Have Fun Together) 

 

If you’re here, you’re probably thinking about how to make your intimacy as a couple even more intense and fulfilling. Have you ever wondered how a simple couple’s sex toy could transform your pleasure, allowing you both to explore new emotions and sensations?  

Using couples' pleasure toys is a fun way to explore what feels good for both of you. Whether you're long-term partners or in a new one, talking about what you want helps you feel more connected. 

In this article, we’ll guide you on how to bring up the idea naturally and positively, and how to select the (best) sex toy for your couple.   

 

Why Discuss Sex Toys?  

 

Every couple is different, with their own needs and desires. Talking about sex toys doesn’t mean something’s missing in your relationship, it’s about making your relationship stronger and adding new experiences.  

Sex toys aren’t meant to replace your partner, they’re all about adding something extra to the mix.  

There are all kinds of sex toys for men and sex toys for women. Each one is designed to bring different types of pleasure to the table. With features like vibrations, pulses, and unique movements, they can do stuff our bodies just can’t on their own.

Sex toys can amplify and intensify your shared orgasmic experiences. 

 

How to Talk about Sex Toys 

 

Starting the conversation is often the hardest but the most important step. Only through open and honest communication can you build a strong connection and trust.

Open communication is key to keeping your relationship strong and fulfilling over time. 
 

But where do you start?

Here are some simple but very effective tips for starting the conversation: 

• Pick the Right Moment: Talk when you're both relaxed. Maybe during a quiet evening or a walk, far from the heat of the moment.
  
  
• Keep It Positive and Light-hearted:  “I’d love to try something new with you. Would you like to explore some new sensations together?”
  
  
• Share a Desire, not a Problem: Don’t present it as something that's "missing". Frame it as an opportunity to have fun and try new things together. Emphasize the excitement of discovery rather than any need to "fix" something. 

 

How to Address Fears and Doubts 

 

It’s totally normal for doubts or insecurities to come up when talking about something as personal as a couple’s pleasure, especially when sex toys are involved.

Some partners might feel a bit intimidated at first, and that’s okay.  

It’s important to be caring and reassuring. Calmly explain that it’s about wanting to explore and enjoy new experiences together. 

Vibrating sex toys and massagers can’t replace human touch, but they can amplify sensations and make experiences more intense and fun.  

Pro tip: Incorporating sex toys into your sex life can relieve performance pressure. By helping both partners relax, stay curious, and simply enjoy the experience. There are no written rules to follow.  You can experiment, laugh, make mistakes, and discover new things together. 

To make things easier, try picking out sex toys together. Whether you’re browsing online or checking out a sex shop, it can turn into a fun, intimate little adventure. It helps take the awkwardness out of it. 

Choosing together allows both of you to respect each other's tastes and boundaries. This in turn, makes the whole process feel natural, exciting, and unifying. 

At the end of the day, the real goal isn’t the sex toy itself — it’s the journey you embark on together. A path made of trust, exploration, and, above all, shared pleasure. 

 

Why Luxus is the best choice?  

 

To help you get started, it’s best to opt for simple and versatile sex toys that work well for both solo and couple use. 

Luxus, an interactive sex toy designed for couples; it is ideal for both beginners and those already experienced in the world of pleasure. 

The ergonomic LuxHer is an external vibrator designed to stimulate the clitoris without being invasive. Often, for those new to sex toys, classic vibrators can feel a little uncomfortable because not everyone is at ease with insertable devices.
 

LuxHim, on the other hand, is a soft silicone ring worn by the partner. 

Together, thanks to an innovative magnetic sensor, they create a unique experience. The closer LuxHim gets, the more LuxHer vibrates intensely, promoting closeness and intimacy between partners. 

LuxHer and LuxHim sync perfectly to help both partners climax together.  

If you want to know more about it, check our website Luxus. 

 

Wrapping Up  

 

Talking openly about your sexual desires is a powerful sign of trust, one that can elevate your relationship to a deeper, more satisfying level. 

Sex toys won’t damage your relationship: they’re precious tools that can enhance pleasure, connection, and playfulness. 

Stay curious, listen to each other, and have fun together. The journey toward shared pleasure is the endpoint!

 

Written By

Beatrice Pozzana