How to Use the Luxus: A Guide for the Best Couples' Toy
Welcome to the world of Luxus, two sex devices created to bring couples closer together through an elevated intimacy experience.
Whether you’ve just received your sex toys or are looking to explore them in a new way, this guide will walk you through how to use the Luxus to its fullest potential.
But before we dive right in, remember: Luxus isn’t just about stimulation. It’s about a serious connection.
It’s about slowing down, tuning in, and letting your relationship become the center of attention, for as long as you want. Now, let’s get started.
How to Use the Luxus
1. Unboxing for a Deeper Experience
Both LuxHim and LuxHer devices are designed to feel like an orgasmic gift — you’ll see that from the moment you open the box to the first time you use it. Its minimalist design builds curiosity and sensuality. When unboxing the couple’s sex toys, take a moment. Let this unboxing set the tone for what’s to come.
Inside, you’ll find:
- The LuxHer and LuxHim device
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2 body-safe adhesive stickers
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A finger Grip
- A USB charging cable
- A silk storage pouch
Before your first use, we recommend you download the FeelConnect app to control the LuxHer from your device.
2. Exploring Your Shapes Together
Ladies and gentlemen, you two now have the Luxus in your hands. The LuxHer has a distinctive curved shape that’s built for comfort and flexibility during partnered play. Unlike other toys, this couples vibrator syncs with each other, with vibrations intensifying as you move together.
But let’s get into the LuxHer and LuxHim a little deeper.
The LuxHer is all about hands-free, targeted pleasure, delivering clitoral stimulation while responding intuitively to LuxHim. Want to enjoy the LuxHer hands-free? You can set it to Clap Control and enjoy it while it becomes sound-responsive.
An amazing feature of the LuxHer is that it syncs with your partner’s sex toy, vibrating more intensely the faster LuxHim moves. This enhances the orgasmic intensity and creates a deeper level of intimacy between you and your partner, with no one feeling left out.
It also works in distance mode (perfect for long-distance relationships!) and can be activated manually for some solo play (oh, and did we mention it’s waterproof?).
But the LuxHer offers more than just this (and this is already unlike any other sex device out there). You can wear the LuxHer multiple ways, either with an adhesive sticker, a finger grip, or the LuxHer harness.
Now, we can’t forget about the LuxHim.
The LuxHim is the Yin to the LuxHer’s Yang. Designed to fit every size (and we mean every size), the LuxHim is a magnetic penis ring that offers the same features including hands-free, waterproof, and targeted pleasure. The LuxHim syncs with the vibrations of the LuxHer, intensifying as you move together.
It’s the perfect match for the LuxHer and makes sure to give the right amount of pleasure for both you and her.
3. Charge and Clean Before Use
Even though the sex device is clean right out of the box, we recommend giving it a gentle rinse with warm water and mild soap or using a toy cleaner. Pat dry with a towel.
Before trying out the Luxus devices, we recommend charging them. Charging is simple: just connect the charger to the port on the device. Once the LED light turns solid green, LuxHer is fully charged and ready to use. A full charge will give you hours (5+ hours to be exact) of shared pleasure.
4. Setting the Mood
Before you get started (and we know you can’t wait), take a moment to think about the setting you’d like to be in. Luxus is best enjoyed when you’re both present, without any distraction or rush.
Light some candles. Put on some sensual music. Have a little dirty talk. Let the moment build before the Luxus comes into play. Trust us, it’ll be worth it.
5. Apply that Lube
No one ever said, “oh, that was too much lube.” And the clitoris loves lube. We recommend applying a water-based lubricant to your Luxus. This will help ensure smoother movement and enhanced sexual satisfaction.
Reminder: Avoid silicone-based lubricants. They can degrade the silicone material of the device.
6. Wear and Positioning
How you choose to wear the LuxHer depends on whether you’re going to use it with the adhesive sticker, finger grip, or harness. Each option gives you a different way to use the LuxHer.
For example, the finger grip is ideal for solo play. The adhesive sticker is for partner play or app use. What’s important is that you find the right position for you. Each body is different, and positioning varies.
However, for the LuxHim, it’s essentially a magnetic penis ring, so it will be placed over the head of the penis, and then positioned towards the end of the shaft.
7. Turning It On
For Manual mode: Hold the multifunctional button on LuxHer for 3 seconds to turn LuxHer on. You can click to switch between Bluetooth Mode (blue light), Distance Mode (pink light), Speed Mode (turquoise light), Pulse Mode (purple light), and Single-User Mode (dark green light).
For Bluetooth mode: Hold the ON/OFF button for 3-4 seconds to activate the Bluetooth mode on LuxHer. When the blue light blinks, LuxHer is in pairing mode. To pair your device, open the FeelConnect app — it’ll automatically scan for nearby devices.
8. Letting Go of Expectations
Everyone wants to have an orgasm. And you will have one. But Luxus isn’t about achieving a goal, it’s about exploring, enjoying. There’s no wrong way to use it.
Try different positions, different modes, different rhythms. Laugh when you need to, pause for a break if you want. Let the intimacy unfold in your own way.
Some couples find that using Luxus brings more eye contact, more touch, and a deeper sense of presence into the bedroom. And that’s a turn on. Enjoy those moments.
9. Aftercare & Cleaning
Once you’ve finished (and we know you had a good time), hold the power button again to turn the device off. Gently remove it and clean it with a toy cleaner. Let it air dry or pat it gently with a cloth before placing it back into the silk pouch.
Aftercare isn’t just for the device; it’s for you, too. Hug. Kiss. Talk. Reflect. Sometimes the best intimacy comes after the experience.
10. Make It a Ritual
The Luxus wasn’t made for one-time use. Oh no, it’s built to last. Some couples use it during weekend getaways, others build it into their weekly intimacy ritual. However you choose to use it, make it yours.
WRITTEN BY
Natasha Ivanovic
Natasha Ivanovic is an intimacy, dating, and relationship writer best known for her writings on Kiiroo, LovePanky, Post Pravda, and more. She's the creator and author of her short stories on TheLonelySerb. She completed her first degree in Criminology and continued and finished her Masters in Investigative Psychology, but then decided to follow her true passion of writing.
